A younger man contacted me on findsomeone, I ignored it for a week or two, then I decided I should be polite and answer him and let him know that I felt he was to young for me. we chatted as friends for a long time while I dated other men. He was always there when I needed a shoulder or just a chat.

We got married (2005) in the lecture theatre at the university of waikato as both of us are teachers and we were doing a couple of papers at uni when we were just friends so it seemed to be the most appropriate place to hold our wedding.

We now have a beautiful baby boy and a great relationship.