Hi. After being on and off the site for many years I decided to write a list of all the attributes I wanted in a lifelong partner. Being a single parent of two boys for thirteen years it was important that the three of us came as a package. One of the criteria was actually to live locally and this most definitely worked for us.

So I have met my match!!! Forever forty. He an English widower, me a divorced Kiwi gal. We started chatting on line early June 2010 and I was immediately drawn to his sense of humour and intellect. After a wee time we started talking on the phone and finally met. It was obvious to both of us after a short period that even though our backgrounds were worlds apart, we could create something incredibly special. We have now been married four months, we are a team, we love and respect each other's children and we are planning to spend the rest of our lives discovering new things with each other, our friends, family. I had almost given up hope of ever finding a man to love and cherish and vice versa so never give up... We thank Findsomeone for finding each other