I sent a smile to Graham and the rest is history....We both liked each others profiles and we agreed to meet for dinner in Rotorua. We didn't message back and forth umpteen times as that isn't the way to really get to know someone. He phoned me to clarify the 'date' and I liked the sound of his voice. Our first date was dinner at a restaurant in Rotorua and for both of us it was pretty much love at first sight. We are getting married in February!